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  Restraining order against me from my JW Wife

  by karlosranson in

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  i should have posted this earlier for assistance.

  i left jw two months ago and since then my life has almost been a lifetime movie.

  long story short, my soon to be ex-wife believes i am full of the world, satan, etc etc.

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  Luo bou to

  Been there The WT does a good job of turning the wife against you when your DF'd and have no intention of going back. Mine became paranoid convinced that I must be the devil incarnate. ( I started attending church ) Fortunately the kids were older the youngest our son was 15 and they chose to move out of the family home with me Had peace of mind after that No longer living with this crazy person. I did not contest the domestic violance order which she got from the courthouse after the police refused to give her one. Where are the bruises the police asked "He is cunning he does not leave any "she replied Later my son asked her Why don't you want to live with dad her reply "I cant live with a man that bashes me" My son said When did dad bash you She did not answer but changed the subject Imagine if she said that to her witness buddies they would not question that statement but sympathize with her not a direct lie but an inferance that leads to believing a lie. We fell in love and where happily married for nearly 20 years I got screwed by the control the WT had over my wife. Actually we both got screwed Cause if it wasn't for that cult we would still be together That's what really bugs me I couldn't find a way to overcome the mind control

  Sorry about the rant I do understand and Good luck with the court case ( oooh I said luck )
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  My Experiences

  by Former in

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  i'm a former ministerial servant and bethelite that left about six months ago.

  my stay at bethel ended one year ago.

  for those interested, this is my story:.

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  Luo bou to

  Good call Judge dread My thoughts exactly Not the (can't remember the term we used it's been so long was it the ) pure language. some bullshit like that eating at the table of Jevovah
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  Two Or More Witnesses Policy Still In Effect For Elders In Child Abuse Cases

  by PublishingCult in

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  2. child-abuse

  despite its assurances to the media reporting on child sex abuse cases, the official wtbts policy on dealing with child molestation in the congregation has not actually changed.

  the most recent direction given to congregation elders in dealing with child molestation allegations can be found in the 2010 revised edition of the secret for-elders'-eyes-only manual, shepherd the flock.

  this direction is in direct violation of the law regarding how ministers are to handle allegations of child molestation.

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  Luo bou to

  Are they saying that forensic evidence -- semem stain, dna, etc -- cannot suffice as a 2nd witness?Len

  Yeh for f**k sake We live in the 21st century
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  Ok. Let's have some comments on this pic from march 15 wt

  by therevealer in

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  Luo bou to

  oops silly me all the others have the mag folded hers is open Unlike the GB I can admit when I am wrong
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  Ok. Let's have some comments on this pic from march 15 wt

  by therevealer in

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  Luo bou to

  Smiles all round the silly sister is on the wrong page. Note the picture on the back of her mag is not on all the others
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  Fake Knock and Other Sneaky Tactics During Field Service

  by sacolton in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  yeah, i hated "field circus".

  i don't like bothering people on saturday mornings about the latest watchtower & awake magazines and try to convert them from their religon to become a jehovah's witness.

  so, what i did was just wait until the group passes by and fake knocked.

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  Luo bou to

  If I did not feel like talking my opening line was "Good morning I'm one of Jehovah's Witnesses" A sure conversation stopper Their usual response was " Not interested" But if they said " So what do you want " I was in trouble and had to think of something to say Usually I just offered the rags Oh and I never knocked very loud
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  Were You Happy That Jack Barr Of The GB Died?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  i read that some are quite happy that another gb bites the dust.. i think of my "faithful" elderly jw mother who helped many many families come into the "truth".

  she's an intelligent woman.

  however, she's blinded by her beliefs (being in a cult).

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  Luo bou to

  victims of victims ???? All this misery perpetuated by the policies of this Org. and no one is responsible. Where does the buck stop?
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  WT Society's Sly Guilt & Fear Tactics on Young People in Nov.15th WT

  by flipper in

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  as many on this board are aware- the wt society is losing younger members in big numbers.

  statistics show that 2 out of 3 jw's raised in the cult leave between the age of 18 to 35. so like they always do- if the wt society sees a " need " or " problem " arising they address it in wt study articles.

  thus notice how manipulative the wt society uses fear, guilt, and put down type comments to intimidate young jehovah's witnesses in this wt study article in nov. 15th issue.. under the titled article " young ones - what will you do with your life ?

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  Nothing is EVER good enough...

  Those hammer talks based on that theme used to affect my ex so badly that one time coming back from an assembly she was trying to throw herself out of the car while I was driving Our daughter was struggling with her holding the lock down so that she couldn't. We were approaching the top of a bridge the site of many suicides. I knew that if I stopped and let her she would have been out of the car and over the side without a second thought. So it is not only the young who are affected
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  I can't really seek professional help. Any self-help suggestions for depression?

  by easyreader1970 in

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  i really don't have the time or the finances for a professional psychiatrist.

  i know i am depressed and i know why.

  the problem, as i have said before in one or two other threads, is that the solution won't really change my depression and may, in fact, make it worse.. so i am resigned to being depressed but would like to know if there are some coping techniques or other suggestions.

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  Luo bou to

  Is your depression caused by living with a bipolar as reading Grandma's post seems to indicate. If so I may be of some help since I lived with this for for 20 years My wife was bipolar
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  No Sex In the New System - It's Impossible

  by mentallyfree31 in

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  2. friends

  fyi:.

  if you think through the jw belief system, we would have to renounce sexual relations forever to get into the new system.

  jw's believe that those coming back in a resurrection will not be married or given in marriage.

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  Luo bou to

  Jesus did not say no sex but no marriage. When I was a JW I figured since we would all be perfect then there would be none of the complications like jealousy and disease that there are now when we sleep around. So I imagined one big love fest. Single horny young brother that I was . I really looked forward to the new system